02/09/2026
Erasmus encourages us to cross borders, meet people and experience life somewhere else; but what happens when somewhere else becomes home?
I came to Denmark for six months and stayed for thirteen years.
What started as a student exchange became love, work, family, identity and an entire adult life built in a country that wasn’t mine.
And over the years, I’ve realised that being welcomed somewhere and truly feeling that you belong there are two very different things.
This isn’t only a Danish question, but one I think many people living abroad across Europe will recognise.
We celebrate mobility, cultural exchange and international relationships, yet belonging can become much more complicated once foreigners decide to put down roots.
I don’t think there is a simple answer, and my own relationship with Denmark contains both gratitude and frustration.
But thirteen years here have completely changed the way I think about home.
So I’m curious about your experience: if you live abroad, do you feel that the country you live in truly sees you as part of it?
And what, after all these years, makes a place feel like home to you?