02/08/2026
To tell Jane & Steve’s story, we need to go back a few decades to the days of bad skin and bad hair, all the traits that come with being 15years old..
Steve was from Eaglesham, while Jane lived in the Mearns but they had many friends in common, and as they got older their social circles began to overlap. There were no dating apps or social media back then, no, this was old school where people looked, watched and possibly wondered whether anything might happen. Suffice to say nothing did.
Then, in 1986, after sixth year finished, Steve moved to Liverpool to start work, and life took them both in different directions. But that was far from the end of their story, although neither of them knew it at the time.
Fast forward to 2007. Steve is back in Scotland, working in Dumbarton, when he’s doing his weekly shop in ASDA and couldn’t believe his eyes when he spotted her sitting in her car in the car park there. They got talking, and she gave him her number. Frustratingly, he then waited ten days before calling her. Some might see that as playing it cool, others would say it nearly ruined everything before it had even started. Thankfully, she still answered. They arranged a date, and so it began.
First impressions?
They said “Because we had known of each other since we were teenagers, it didn’t feel like meeting a complete stranger. It felt familiar, but different — as if we were picking up a thread that had been left hanging years before. There was an ease between us very quickly. No great awkwardness, no big performance, no dramatic film moment. Just conversation, laughter, familiarity and a sense that something which had not quite happened all those years ago might finally have a chance”
He thought she was warm, funny, confident and very easy to be with. She thought he was still the same Steve she’d remembered all those years ago — possibly a little more grown up, and at least sensible enough to eventually make that phone call.
Things moved quickly after that, once they began seeing each other, it all felt very natural. More dates followed, then more time together, and before long it became obvious that this was not just a casual reconnection.
Quickly they sold their houses, bought a place together… and found themselves in their 40s living back with their parents for a while … nightmare. They built a life together, supported each other through changes in work, family life, good times, difficult times, ordinary days and big moments. Over the years, they became each other’s constant — the person to come home to, the person to laugh with, the person to face things with, and the person who knows the full story without everything needing to be explained. They told me, “Our relationship has not really been built on grand gestures. It has been built on shared history, humour, loyalty, resilience, family, friendship and the daily choice to keep going through life together”
Congratulations Mr & Mrs Williamson ❤️