05/06/2026
One hill I will die on?
Protect the guest list.
Because no matter how you slice itâ
budget, stress, energy, the overall feel of your dayâŚ
it all traces back to whoâs in the room.
This isnât about creating the wedding you think you should have.
Itâs about creating an experience you actually want to be present for.
Big and elevated.
Small and intimate.
Somewhere in between.
It all starts with the guest list.
And I say this as someone who learned the hard wayâ
I invited too many peopleâŚ
and then had to uninvite them.
Yeah⌠that kind of awkward.
Iâve felt the pressure.
The expectations.
The pushback that comes with setting boundaries
like âno kidsâ or âweâre keeping it small.â
So I didnât just talk about itâ
I created something for it.
A resource that helps you not only tame your guest listâŚ
but gives you the exact words to say
when the pushback comes.
Because it will come.
And you deserve to feel confident when it does. Let me know if youâd like the link!