08/28/2026
A lot of these lessons came from getting divorced, but honestly I think they’re just life lessons I happened to learn the really fu***ng hard way 😂 Like you’re allowed to change your mind. You’re allowed to want more and still be grateful for what you have. You’re allowed to admit something you chose isn’t working anymore without needing to make it or someone else the villain. And maybe the biggest one for me: you do not always get the luxury of being 100% sure before you make a big decision. I wasted so much time thinking if I just thought about something long enough I’d eventually arrive at this magical place where I had zero doubt and knew exactly what to do. Turns out sometimes you just have to trust yourself enough to move and let the answer meet you there. My life looks almost nothing like I thought it would at 37 and thank the good Lord for that ✌🏽❤️🔥