22/07/2026
💙 “Mummy, why are we not welcome?”
Yesterday, we tried to book a table at a local restaurant and explained that we have two children with food allergies.
The response was polite, but there were no questions, no explanation and no attempt to understand whether our allergies could be accommodated.
Later, while talking to my husband, I said, “I guess we are not welcome there.”
I did not realise our son had overheard.
He looked at me and asked,
“Mummy, why are we not welcome?”
💙 That question has stayed with us.
We completely understand that not every restaurant can safely cater for every allergy. Safety must always come first.
🤝 But communication matters. A simple explanation can make all the difference.
🌿 Thankfully, this has not been our experience everywhere. Here in Abruzzo, restaurant after restaurant has welcomed us, asked questions, taken allergies seriously and made us feel genuinely included.
❤️ That is what hospitality is all about.
No child with a food allergy should ever have to wonder whether they are welcome.