07/14/2026
“Screen-time panics typically position children as being without agency, completely at the mercy of evil tech companies that adults must intervene to defend against,” Charlie Warzel wrote in 2025. “But a version of the problem exists on the opposite side of the age spectrum, too.” https://theatln.tc/XULeYFN2
Over the past year, Warzel has heard from people about their screen-hooked elders. “I am constantly begging my mom to put her phone down, every time I see her she is just mindlessly scrolling. I swear her attention span is GONE,” one person wrote. Another described a parent as “playing Candy Crush for hours while the grandkids fight for a spot on her lap.”
Older people really are spending more time online, according to various research.
But usage surveys do not capture the nuance of a person’s relationship with their device, Warzel writes.
“There is just a fundamental error in the way we think about older adults, where we classify everyone 65 and over as this one kind of block,” Ipsit Vahia, the chief of geriatric psychiatry at Mass General Brigham’s McLean Hospital and the director of its Technology and Aging Laboratory, told Warzel. And online habits that might be concerning for young or middle-aged people ought to be considered differently for older generations, Vahia suggests: “High technology use in teenagers and adolescents is often associated with worse mental health and is a predictor of sort of more isolation and loneliness, even depression,” he told Warzel, but the opposite has been found for older adults.
Among younger people, some projection is happening regarding their fears about their elders’ technology use. “The anxieties I heard from people who reached out to me—the anxiety I myself have felt—seem rooted in our own tortured relationships with our devices,” Warzel continues at the link. “Many of us are constantly concerned about what we’re consuming, how much we’re scrolling, and the subtle ways we’re all being pushed, prodded, and manipulated online. And we map our individual worries onto others, fair or not.”
🎨: Paul Spella / The Atlantic