For Them

For Them We are redefining wellness for the q***r community. Binaries are meant to be broken.

We are making space for authentic expression and radical self development by co-creating products and services that our community deserves.

05/19/2025

he’s clearly finding any excuse to show off his favorite pair of underwear😆

Explore the For Them Underwear collection at the link in our bio

in the Chalk Trad Boxer (Size V)

Babe…we would NEVER. We’re updating our texting services and may not get your texts for a few weeks. TRAGIC! We know. Th...
09/18/2023

Babe…we would NEVER. We’re updating our texting services and may not get your texts for a few weeks. TRAGIC! We know. The good news is there are other ways to reach us:

📥 DM us on here!
📧 Email us at [email protected]
🔗 Use the link in our bio to schedule a 1:1 binder fitting with a member of our team!

We thank you for your patience 🫶

.mehiel is an artist, actor, and filmmaker. Lío made their feature film debut as the lead role in MUTT, which premiered ...
09/15/2023

.mehiel is an artist, actor, and filmmaker. Lío made their feature film debut as the lead role in MUTT, which premiered at the 2023 Film Festival. Their critically acclaimed performance won them the Special Jury Award for Acting. They will next
be seen starring in the indie feature, IN THE SUMMERS.

As a filmmaker, Lío produced CHAPERONE, a q***r short film which premiered at the 2022 Sundance Film
Festival. They wrote, directed, produced, and starred in DISFORIA, a short film which premiered at the
2018 Film Festival.

Lío is currently the producer and creative director of the transgender sculpture collection, Ancient
Futures/Angels. The works most recently showed at in London. Their piece, Arcade
Amerikana, was included in the list of 10 Best Immersive Shows in NYC by and .

*as a note: MUTT received an interim waiver from SAG to promote the movie as it is totally unaffiliated with any AMPTP company. You can support the small film and still be in support of the strike (as we are!)

The first wave of The Binder restock is here 🌊 Y’all cleared us OUT in August, so we restocked our inventory as quick as...
09/14/2023

The first wave of The Binder restock is here 🌊 Y’all cleared us OUT in August, so we restocked our inventory as quick as we could 🏃Moving so quickly means we couldn’t restock every single size in every single color at once, so we split it into two batches.

👀 If you don’t see your favorite size + color combo right now, hang tight for the next wave coming soon!

Some reminders for our customers:

🌎 We ship worldwide!

🔁 Returns & Exchanges remain U.S. only.

☎️ You can schedule a binder fitting 1:1 call with a member of our team to make sure you get the right size. Link in our bio!

🏪 The Binder is safe to wear all day.

🤑 You can save 30% on all For Them products + gain access to our app, Close Friends list, and other exclusive offers by joining The Membership.

The Binder MAX is available to ~everyone~ starting tomorrow 💙 in colors Chalk, Starlight, Charcoal, and Midnight. Order ...
08/31/2023

The Binder MAX is available to ~everyone~ starting tomorrow 💙 in colors Chalk, Starlight, Charcoal, and Midnight. Order as early as 8am ET tomorrow and hurry while inventory is HOT 🔥

Learn more about the MAX below:

🤑 For Them Members will continue to get 30% off the Binder MAX and all For Them products!

🛠️ We built the Binder MAX after folks requested a higher compression bind with more tissue coverage. This style has a higher neckline, longer length, and an extra strength panel.

🌱 The Binder MAX is made with 100% recycled waste in NYC. Prices reflect the cost of production that is safe for both our customers and our planet.

⏲️ The Binder MAX is safe to wear up to 4-6 hours.

📏 We scaled the sizes for the MAX so that you’re the same size as you are in The Binder. Remember, the MAX is meant be a tighter fit for higher compression, but should never cause you pain or discomfort.

🤔 If you’re unsure of what size to order, use the link in our bio to schedule a binder fitting 1:1 with a member of our team!

🌎 Returns & Exchanges are available to U.S. customers only, so let’s make sure you order the best size for you!

.daddi in the Charcoal Binder MAX and Forest Binder 🥵❤️‍🔥🏀
08/29/2023

.daddi in the Charcoal Binder MAX and Forest Binder 🥵❤️‍🔥🏀

We are so excited to tell you that ForThem is acquiring Autostraddle! We’re two brands joining forces with a shared miss...
08/22/2023

We are so excited to tell you that ForThem is acquiring Autostraddle! We’re two brands joining forces with a shared mission striving to realize our boldest, gayest dreams. Here’s the TLDR:

✍️Autostraddle will retain editorial independence and will remain the website you currently know and love, headed up by our Editor-in-Chief Carmen Phillips.

👔For Them and Autostraddle will be led by CEO Kylo Freeman (they/he).

⚙️For Them products and membership, including pricing, will not change as a result of the acquisition.

💜Autostraddle will remain reliant on member support and Autostraddle’s A+ Membership program isn’t going anywhere. In fact, we’re going to grow A+ to offer new and exciting experiences and perks for Autostraddle readers as we combine forces with For Them.

🗽The For Them and Autostraddle teams will work together in a hybrid capacity, with an HQ in New York City.

🚀Our full teams have only just begun working together, and are hard at work building a roadmap for merging our communities. This is the first announcement of many, but we’ll keep you in the loop every step of the way. We have new, thrilling offerings on the horizon, so WATCH THIS SPACE.

❤️‍🔥🌟🎉🥳🚀

Read the interview with For Them’s CEO via 🔗 in bio.

🥳Welcome to the hard launch of The Playground, a new digital space for deepening connection and dropping into your q***r...
08/21/2023

🥳Welcome to the hard launch of The Playground, a new digital space for deepening connection and dropping into your q***r joy Check out the link in our bio or visit ✨forthem.com/membership✨ to learn more + join over 900 wonderful gender expansive community members already enjoying The Playground 🤩

🤝Meet the co-host of He’s Copy Podcast: Natalya Samee!Natalya (she/her) is a writer, actor, comedian, and Libra based in...
07/27/2023

🤝Meet the co-host of He’s Copy Podcast: Natalya Samee!

Natalya (she/her) is a writer, actor, comedian, and Libra based in Brooklyn. She was an artist-in-residence in Ars Nova’s Comedy Artist Makers Program, where she developed and debuted her one woman show, SATURN RETURN, to a sold out audience off-broadway.

Next, she will be taking it to Edinburgh Fringe Festival from August 2-13. She was recently an artist-in-residence in SFFILM’s 2022 Filmhouse Residency for her project, DOHA GIRLS, an original TV series based on her adolescence in the Middle East.

She currently performs improv, stand-up, and sketch around New York City. Born in Pakistan but raised in oil-rich monarchies, Natalya is interested in telling stories that illuminate the world she comes from. 📚🌟

🤝Meet the co-host of He’s Copy Podcast: Gara Lonning!Gara (he/him) is a performance artist and writer living in NYC. He ...
07/26/2023

🤝Meet the co-host of He’s Copy Podcast: Gara Lonning!

Gara (he/him) is a performance artist and writer living in NYC. He moved to NYC from Iowa in 2015 where he was christened into the NYC stand up scene. After a few years of exploring his voice in the comedy world, Gara added his 16 years of dance training to his stand up set.

He has been elegantly straddling the NYC downtown theater world and the comedy scene for 5 years now and has performed on some of NYC’s most iconic stages like La MaMa, MoMa PS1, The Bell House, Stand Up New York, ARS NOVA and many more.

He loves his dog and dancing in his kitchen 🐾🕺🏼

Join us for an Instagram LIVE with , , and  to discuss all things art, performance, writing, love, dating…you name it! T...
07/21/2023

Join us for an Instagram LIVE with , , and to discuss all things art, performance, writing, love, dating…you name it! They’ve done it all!

Tune in on Sunday, July 23rd at 4pm ET. Have any burning 🔥 questions or topics you want them to discuss? Drop them in the comments 👇

📢CALLING ALL NEW YORKERS! 📢We put up posters around NYC to spread a message we strongly believe in, DRAG IS DIVINE, but ...
07/14/2023

📢CALLING ALL NEW YORKERS! 📢

We put up posters around NYC to spread a message we strongly believe in, DRAG IS DIVINE, but they keep getting taken down or posted over.

SO we’re giving away gift cards to folks who help us preserve our campaign.

How to win a $50 gift card:
🔎 Find 3 of our posters
🤳 Take a selfie with each of them (face must be in frame)
🖼️ Post them to your GRID
🏷️ Tag us
📝 Write in your caption what gender expansivity means to your and/or why you support drag artistry
⭐️Everyone who does this will win

How to win a $15 gift card:
🔎 Find 1 of our posters
🤳 Take a selfie (face must be in frame)
🕑 Post to your STORY
🏷️ Tag us
⭐️ First 20 folks to do this will win

⏰ DEADLINE TO PARTICIPATE IS MONDAY JULY 17 ⏰

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