08/19/2026
WHAT IS YOUR ONE THING?
Be aware of the things you avoid because they may be the exact things you need to run to.
What is your most important thing you need to do? The biggest thing on your to do list? Is it written in invisible ink? Covered up with the guilt of not doing it? The fear of failure? The fear of success?
Sometimes what the bully needs is a punch in the nose! A dad telling you to take your medicine and stand up to the thing you dodge. A situation that forces your hand. Puts you in the corner. And forces your claws to come out.
Look at your to do list. Your life list.
What are you avoiding that is hard, or uncomfortable, or takes you out of your safe place? What is one big bad thing that you can tackle and put a hurt on with the conviction of ship burning?
Over time, the wait of things that should be far outweighs the things themselves.
Take off the rags of embarrassment, ego, protection, perfection, guilt, and shame and toss them aside.
Take the plunge.
When you get up and take a breath after, you might just feel like a new person. The cold drink after a month of desert walking. The moment you finally cleaned your teenage room. Tossed the rodent frenzying candy wrappers. Found your floor again. And in doing so, found a new level of self respect.
Everyone has a thing. We always have a thing.
What is your one thing?